i really dont understand. Is it me?

If you do not wana go, then in the first place, dont tell me it's ok to go.
Then when plans are made and to be confirmed, u tell me u dun feel like going.
Only to add on that, if I wana go, u will go.

Isnt this making it sound like i'm the one forcing?

if i didnt want u to go, i would not have asked u.
then u tell me to go alone if i wanted to go.